[Mini blog] Should Couples Live Together Before Getting Married?

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Many readers shared their interesting stories with us.

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So sad! When we are having a relationship with somebody, one of the most embarrassing things is the intervention of the third party. We have to admit that being in love with someone is sometimes troublesome. We have to worry a lot, like “whether he/ she is my Mr./Ms. right”, or “whether I can marry him/ her. Consequently, some people advocate that couples should live together for a certain time before getting married, simply because they can understand each other better. However, others believe that it may get a bad reputation for indiscretion. 

So what ‘s your opinion?

Should couples live together before getting married?

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54 Comments

  • No they should not live bcoz theyget bored of wach others tastes and opinions which they have to know about each other only after the marriage….

    They may get like” ohh i knew it😐”despite like “ohhh….is it😯😯”if they caught up together before their marriage….

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  • I think they should not, beacause the real hapiness in getting married is the transfer from family to halusband’s place. And if they are staying together even before marriage, then it becomes boring.

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  • In context of india, they shouldn’t because westernization is on the peak in india. Girls are wearing western dresses and doing everything. I’m not saying that this is bas but also it isn’t good. As e result, the rapes are undertaking.If they would like to live together they need to understand each other. And the most important thing is they both should have a stable career option. Because if they don’t have stable career, they may harm each other or may attempt any kind of crime. In my opinion, this isn’t true love this is nominal.

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    • Exactly, they shouldn’t live together before marriage. Because, at the time of marriage, there will be no charm in them for getting married.

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  • If I talk to my opinion we should never live together before marriage
    Because after marriage we are surprise for each other try to understand each other better
    #Ishant

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  • I think if the lover and the beloved stay with each other whatever it is before marriage or after marriage it does not matter. Because love is a so powerful weapon that can handle any shortcomings and limitations but that must be a true love. Aspect is very important if aspect is bad then we can find denigration in moon but through good aspect we can only find beauty of the moon. Our society takes it as nasty but true love is not confined to any boundaries. It is not so earth earthy. Love has miraculous power to heal everything. That we can find in Radha Krishn’s love. They are not married still they love each other staying in each other’s soul. So these things does not matter only love matters.

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    • Ya right what matters is the love and truly love each other it’s OK to live together weather before or after marriage. because when the couple really in love with each other will never be bored of each other .

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      • After breakup…….the things used to become so complicated. Will anybody accept someone who had spent a lot time with another one. I think they would not have space for themselves and their dignity. They will feel shame using the word like love,trust, respect….. after marriage they both become responsibilty of each other they are respected by society and so on…

  • I don’t think so if they live together before marriage what is the meaning of getting married we must have to believe and understand each other opinions and liking being apart then only we can live happily ever after in my opinion

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  • No, because in my country that majority moeslem we have to marriage before we live together, i think treat like you wanna treat, and be person like you put in your pray, it’s matter to get a real couple

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  • Nope, you should get married before having sex or even living together

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  • I absolutely disagree with the theme. Couples should not live together before getting married because it makes them bored. Their love should be decrease when they look their weakness each other.

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    • How can you say that they will look their weakness. It can be reversible also.

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  • Yes, they should live together to figure out whether he/she is worth of spending life along. What if they found after marriage that they are not made for each other , their taste is different their choices are different they can’t live together . These things after marriage only leads to divorce that not only trouble couples but also their families. So it would be better if they spend some time together before marriage to know each other and decide themselves that they got perfect life partner and they are ready to walk hands in hands on beautiful path of life together.

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  • No this is not right to do this.After marriage they must live together.they both are life partner .They live their whole life together

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  • I dosnt think so..being a Muslim i beleive in sunnah and principles of Quraan..f someone is following the principles of islam, he doesnt need to have spent time with his life partner…

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  • In my opine , living together before marriage can be good , if both have employment and they want to know each other for future lifep partner Everybody lives in a family , where sisters, mother , brother, father lives there , that time they don’t feel wrong . It depends on way of thinking.because human being have feelings and they know wrong or right.

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  • One thing I can tell you, if both are going to live together it’s fundamental to just work with all the psychological issues that each other have, if none of them wants to work with that then they shouldn’t get married, just imagine that you’re going to start a new family with that special person in your life and both or just one of you begin to manifest all insecurities, problems that burdened with past experiences, that’s when marriage ends in divorce, and I’m not telling it’s a bad situation but you can just avoid that and really focus on you and then think about marrying someone.

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  • I think they shouldn’t because it is just waste the time and a a little bit of hopeless. How about if that person isn’t being your future husband/wife, it’s just my opinion ,😁

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  • If both of them are working and mentally prepared to marry with each other then obviously they can leave together without marry. But if any of them has thoughts like he/she should get check her/his partner before marry then it is very wrong and should not live together.

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  • As according to islam it is sinful and haram . And secondly livein relationship effect you emotionally and mentally too.
    As the curiosity of many events which are going to happen after marrige becomes zero…and allmost life become allmost hectic . In starting days enjoyment is good but after some times it get pinching.

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  • They would lose the thrilling experiences after getting married if they are living together before getting married

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  • They shouldn’t Live together before marriage. If they start to live together before marriage then there will not be such excitement of going to be a married or being married.
    They shouldn’t live together before marriage and collect the lots of moments of excitement of getting married.

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  • Couples should not live together before marriage either they can have a little bit chats with each other this creates a more romantic situation and it lasts long

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  • Living together is not wrong actually it help you to get aware of your partner’s habit and to know that weather he/she was a good or bad life partner for you.

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  • I think there is no problem if both are mature and want to understand hir/her patner

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  • yes..they will get to know each other but without doing wrong things.

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  • It’s good to try but …actually every time they will start living together and will find something which will make them confused about marrying the same partner … And they would have options to leave either of them…. And they will keep searching the same thing with another partner… So as we all know this journey never ends.. because no one is perfect, So a not very good idea rather than just experiencing the married life and some common rules 😀

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  • I think they should live together for a couple of days before getting married to understand the opinion of each other properly.

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  • Living together is not only option to know each other before marriage there are lots of other way too. And it is also not consider good in Indian culture and it’s also fade the excitement of marriage and living together.

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  • I think, its depend on what they are thinking about the relationship and also the culture for one another. Everything was fine if they can handle everything together before getting married and they would love to and not thinking too much for what the other people will saying. In another case maybe who wants to more respectable and thinking about their environtment and about descision between they family either each other. They won’t do that. So in my opinion it’s come back to what they think or depending both of them. But in personality, I don’t want to do that :v.

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  • In my religion we can’t live togather, we don’t have to. And I believe that rule is the best way too keep our dignity. Because marriege is the highest in relationship and you can’t play with it, you have to keep your heart ’till you find your one true love

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  • Yes definitely
    They should live together before marriage

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  • I think it’s wrong to live together before getting married because marriage is a beautiful relation to which we all blessed with . This will definitely lose or end the charm of marriage .
    There is a time for everything infact everything seems good on right time.

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  • I see when any one are in serious relationship, they must not happen anything between them before marriage not to take place any wrong thing in the future.

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  • I don’t think so, that couples should live together before getting married! It’s bcz at that time no body pretend theirself as a bad human being, their only intention is to pretend impressive ,all perfect

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  • I think live in relationship is not right because if you are living together before marriage then it is highly possible that you may get physically close. After that if your relationship got break then it will hurt more. Because after getting physical we get highly attached with the emotions of each other. So get marriage first then live with each other ever 😊

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  • They should not do like that because no yet Bond between both of them

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  • I think it is not good for couples live together before getting marriage because if the person who love you so much that he wants to live with u before marriage, then why not he get marry with you, if the person really loves you then he supposed to give you all the happiness of the world. So, why not he wants to continue a respected relationship with you.

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  • Yes , it’s somehow necessary these days to understand the person we are going to live our life with. it’s a taboo in our culture but it is something which is needed to couple’s .they get to know about each other ,which we can not know by meetings .this is a way to find out weather the person is perfect for you or not . For me it is necessary to live in before marriage to understand each other .

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  • No, they shouldnt.Because i think there were many other way or options to know each other better. And its not r8 way to undrstnd each other.its not a great way. so, spending more time, going for a date, gifted many things, talking with each other they can undrstnd each other better nd it didnt break any reputation at all.Also They shouldnt live together becz by doing this before marriage they will feel bored when they married.

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